How long has it been…three, perhaps four weeks, since I have spent the day alone, at home?
I can’t quite remember; it’s been so long, too long.
Days of solitude are a necessity to me, as essential as food and sleep.
But it hasn’t always been that way.
When my four children were all much younger the house was continually noisy, in one way or another. Talking, television switched on by the first child out of bed in the morning, music playing (in more than one room), phones ringing, and usually all at the same time!
On the odd occasion when I would be in the house, in silence, I couldn’t cope; I simply had to switch on music, or the television, anything to cut the deafening silence!
I’m not sure how the changes occurred, the changes within myself, which brought about the demand (yes, it was a demand!) for peace and silence around me.
The sounds around home have altered now. My second oldest lives in her own home now, my eldest is quiet by nature (thank you, God!), and then there’s the two teenagers.
As is the case with many siblings, they are constantly bickering, only pausing long enough to sing together. Yes, sing. They have the same taste in music and, as teenagers do, know every word, to every song they hear.
Their singing can actually be rather entertaining, especially so when I way up the pro’s and cons…would I rather listen to squabbling, or the singing? Hmm…
Today there will be no voices, no phones, no mobile phones, no skype, no texting, no online chatting ~ everyone is out.
I have the house to myself.
My herbal tea is made and my ironing awaits me. Whilst ironing, the only sounds I will hear will be the pattering of the raindrops falling, the occasional chorus of frogs croaking and the distant buzzing of the cicada’s.
It’s a day to restore my equilibrium, to silence my busy brain, to focus on the here and now.
A day to appreciate the Sounds of Silence….
(Photo credit ~National Geographic at Google Images)
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